There should be a statute of limitations that clearly defines the maximum amount of time after “dating one guy you can go ahead and “date” his homie.Of course the appropriate amount of time should be determined by examining the first relationship.
In my case I had a very random fling with guy one and I use the term, fling, loosely in this instance. So what’s the big deal? Why do I feel compelled to blog about this issue. Well my story wouldn’t be appropriate if there wasn’t a monkey wrench thrown in the mix. I not only had a “fling” with one friend, I also had a “thing,” different from the fling, with friend number two!! GASP
In my defense, I would like to state that I did not know that these two fellas were such close friends, I never hung out with them together and a significant amount of time passed between the fling and the thing.
Now you see my dilemma. Here comes friend number three, a cool guy that I wouldn’t mind getting to know better. But my history with his BEST friends is something I am having trouble looking over.
If double standards did not exist or if we didn’t live in a society so quick to judge others this would totally be a non issue. How sad is it that I would consider giving up an opportunity to possibly discover the great love of my life?
Maybe I just need to meet some new guys and nip this, whatever it is, in the bud before someone gets their feelings hurt. No girl wants to be known as the homie hopper afterall.
What do you think??
Its 15 min before Single Awareness Day and I’m sitting in the living room with my sister watching Becoming Jane and wondering if I’m gonna end up an old maid spinster. I wish I was planning some romantic evening instead of packing bowls and writing blogs… haha… LAME
well anyways…
Update: Here’s my horoscope for Feb. 14, 2010. If this doesn’t mean I will have a shitty valentines day, I dont know what else will.
“I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe that loving is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.”
— Audrey Hepburn
LA Girl Flare – Jade
Sinful Colors – Queen of Beauty
Straight up now tell me do you really want to love me forever?
When I was little my mom wanted me to be a Laker girl. She was obsessed with Paula Abdul so when Paula came out with Straight Up it was a no brainer that it would turn out to be the first pop song that i remembered all the words to. Straight Up takes me back to nights out with my crazy mom and her friends when she couldn’t find a baby sitter to watch me.
I will be voting for Mr. Andrew Garcia because of this awesome rendition of Paula’s Straight Up. I die.
I started to feel one guy… and then another asks me out, and then another wants to chill, and then the ex texts me out of the blue…what the fuck?? I go through one of the worst singleton spells of my life and then all of a sudden I got dudes blowin up my phone?
I dont get it.
I really believe that if you exude a positive energy, positive things will happen to you. I’m putting myself out there and the fellas are catchin it… I’m lovin it.
